Exit the Dependency Model. For authors and women 35+
There is a moment when you realize
that what you called “love,” “calling,” or “connection” has quietly turned into dependence.
Not dramatic.
Not loud.
Just exhausting.
This text is for women and authors 35+
who are done with:
- waiting for signs instead of making decisions,
- confusing intensity with intimacy,
- giving attention where there is no reciprocity,
- losing focus, money, and time while “trying to understand.”
I don’t work with myths.
I don’t decode symbols.
I don’t promise transformation.
I work with exit.
What a dependency model actually is
A dependency model is any structure where:
- your center of gravity lives outside you;
- your nervous system stays in constant activation;
- hope replaces agreement;
- meaning replaces action.
It doesn’t matter whether it’s a person, an idea, or a story.
The mechanism is the same.
What exit looks like
Exit is not revenge.
Not erasure.
Not “closure rituals.”
Exit is:
- returning attention to yourself,
- closing energy leaks,
- restoring decision-making,
- re-entering life, work, and money.
Quietly. Effectively.
1:1 Sessions — Exit the Dependency Model
Format: 60 minutes, private
For: authors and women 35+
Fee: $250
Limited slots
This is not therapy and not spiritual guidance.
It’s practical navigation.
In one session we:
- name the dependency model clearly;
- identify the holding mechanism (not the story);
- shut down attention leaks;
- build a concrete 2–4 week exit plan;
- restore focus, calm, and agency.
If you are still in love with the story — this is not for you.
If you are ready to leave the model — it is.
To request a session, write:
“I’m ready to exit the dependency model.”
